Threesome—Maybe Not So Fun for You

You may hear threesome is the fantasy of most men and women. Threesome can spice up your relationship. Threesome can strengthen your marriage. As how wonderful and dreamy threesome be, not all couples are threesome material. Even for some couples who love to try kinky things, threesome is still a major challenge for them. You may say that if you do full preparation, you can handle it. Communication! Communication is the key! No! If you are not threesome material, do not bear any fluke mind. Threesome can definitely destroy your relationship and tear it into pieces. Still doubt it? Here I would tell you a story of a failed threesome that damaged a marriage.

My ex-husband and I, that is right, the story happened on me. Anyway, my ex-husband and I divorced last year. Reasons? Threesome!

I am a swinger and I still am. I think there is a trait for us swingers. We all have some polygamous blood in our body. In other word, we will be turned on by watching our partner with another person, no matter it is a male or female. At least for me, I am that kind. However, for my husband, he is not, but he thought he is. When I brought up tinder threesome, he was to exciting about it. We both were. I had experiences before we were together, while he didn’t. So I planned for it. The first time we had threesome, I invited a girl. She was pretty and she was the type of my husband. We had a great time and nothing happened.

There was a time, I suggested that we should invite a man to join us. He thought about it for a while and agreed. I guess he was also curious about it. So I invited another man over. I found him on a threesome dating app. I didn’t know him before. I had a very good time, but I could see that there was not must interact between him and my husband. I could tell that my husband was a little intimidated by him. After the threesome, my husband was a little down. I comforted him, said that there was nothing uncomfortable to me and him when we had it with a girl, why should there be when with a man. He agreed. I thought he was over it.

Since then, he acted a little suspicious. I caught him looking through my phone, my calling records, my message records, etc. I knew something wasn’t right. We used to have a very trust-worthy relationship. He trusted me and I trusted him. I confronted him. He explained that he was just playing with my phone and did nothing. He also asked me that why I cared so much and why I got so angry. I knew it would never end.

One day, I found a women’s underwear under our bed. I took it to him, he admitted it with a freezingly tone that he cheated on me to get back at my infidelity. That was when I realize that we shouldn’t be together anymore.